Me F36, sending text to my ex M42, telling him I don’t want to try to work things out.

I broke up with my ex last year, he recently contacted me saying he’s not drinking as much and I’m an AA program. He was always verbally abusive to me when drinking or when angry. I later find out the AA program is court ordered because of a DUI and he still doesn’t think he has an issue. We have not had any fights since I began stalking to him again but I made it very clear to him that I’m not ready to try a relationship with him again. Last week he showed me a video he took of him self arguing and being very verbally abusive to a coworker which triggered all my old feelings. This week I sent him this text after he had been trying to contact me. AIO? I feel like he is verbally abusive and his reaction to my text proves it. I do have a history of mental health issues and I have been hospitalized before for SI. I have depression anxiety and I’m bipolar.