Looking for ridealong information, and how not to be a dickhead!

Firstly, i dont have a track car. started sim racing in 2024 and really getting into sportscars and racing over the last year because of it. VIR is about 2 and a half hours from me but i consider it my home track. have been there a couple of times for SRO and IMSA and plan on going a few times this year in addition to the petit le mans in october.

figured a little background would add some context.

ive commented on here a few times to try and get some ridealong info, and have received great advice. but i wanted to make the post in case someone who didnt see a comment could chime in with more info.

from what i understand, if i go to this event linked, i can purchase a rider wristband and bum rides with anyone willing to take me. i was told to link up with the lead instructor and im sure he'll be able to answer any questions i have from there, but i dont want to be the 34 year old kid in a candy store bouncing around and getting on the nerves of people/teams whove spent thousands of dollars and hours of prep for this event to get some serious track time and info.

is there a better day/time slot to show up and potentially get to ride? i dont want to impede whatsoever, i dont want to be the guy someone takes along because they feel obligated, and i definitely dont want to be in the way. truth be told ill be happy enough to sit by the snake and watch cars for a few hours.

also for what its worth...im 6'1" \~260 so not small. are miatas out of the question 😂