That Vaush video doesn't blame Natalie; it blames the offended Left
Vaush says that it's the offended Left hurting the rest of us, not, as he says, the five seconds of Buck Angel audio.
But he's nasty, an unfunny scold--even if he's right. tl;dw.
Natalie's the biggest supporter of the trans and enby community I know of, the whole spectrum.
She doesn't want to disown Buck Angel, who was a formative influence on her. She's _not_ a transmedicalist--no way. She's not even completely sure she's not still enby herself (as she used to think she was). And she has a track record of _changing people's minds_. (I'm paraphrasing the beginning of her October AMA.)
To steal from Chris Crocker, leave Natalie alone. We're lucky she still even makes videos for us.
Edit: Natalie _does_ wish she hadn't used the audio from Buck Angel.