Alternatives to the Shokz OpenFit 2 SE Earbuds?

I recently got the Shokz OpenFit 2 SE Earbuds, and I’ve been wearing them for a couple of weeks. I don’t like them. I’m looking for earbuds in the same price range that have the same good qualities without the bad.

THE BAD: My ears hurt so, so much. I don’t even wear these that often, and I keep the volume relatively low. Jesus Christ, my ears are fucking killing me. they hurt all the time. I genuinely cannot use these earbuds anymore because it’s so painfully what the hell. also, no noise cancellation sucks.

THE GOOD: The fit is nice. I never worry about them falling out, which is a big deal for me because most earbuds don’t fit my ears so I need the wrap around feature. and I love that you can pause, skip tracks, and raise the volume using buttons on the earbuds instead of having to get your phone out all the time. additionally I like the way you can mess with the eq in the app.

TLDR: looking for earbuds with noise cancellation, good fit support, eq customization, and buttons, but ones that are comfortable and don’t make my ears hurt.