Books with characters trying to break the patriarchy

Hi! i'm looking for a book series where the characters try to break the patriarchy. I would prefer a female main character, with enough rage to rival the Sun's fire. I like romance as a subplot, but pleaaase if there's one, make it healthy.

I love intricate politics, the found family trope, and I'm open to any kind of relationship (straight, LGBTQ+). I also don't mind scifi. For the record, I've tried The Jasmine Throne and it wasn't my cup of tea.

Thanks 😊