I have a suggestion for all Incels that might be lurking. It's the magic of a coffee date.
"Hey I like you, we should meet for coffee" works a million times better than any pick up artist stuff. Weather its a friend, co-worker, or a person youve only been messaging for 3 days. Anytime have interacted with someone for a bit and they ask me to coffee, I ALWAYS say yes. Just to see what happens. My friends are the same. Coffee is a really casual excuse to sit down and talk to someone and if you don't like coffee, don't worry, get a pastry and hot chocolate or something. If they do reject your coffee date, responding with "no worries, let me know if you change your mind". Boom. Done. I have given you the code to dating women. Also remember whatever she orders that way you can impress her next time.