Even what she doesn't eat will hurt her

Rare: [https://www.rareddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/1eftaxa/just\_found\_out\_my\_mil\_had\_a\_baby\_shower\_for\_my/](https://www.rareddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/1eftaxa/just_found_out_my_mil_had_a_baby_shower_for_my/)

tldr is that MIL had the gall to throw a baby shower for OP's baby, with no involvement from OP whatsoever (nor OP's baby)... and OP didn't even find out until after the fact, yet she feels "violated".

Now, in spanish (my native language) there's the saying "hasta lo que no come le hace daño" (even what they don't eat will hurt them), to refer to people who make drama about things that don't involve them, like this OP and many more over the justno subs.

Feeling "violated" over this baby shower is such an overreaction that it led me to check OP's post history where she also calls MIL a "terrorist" (without even a smidge of justification), and relates that MIL accused OP of forcing her husband to go no contact with his family, which is true (even by OP's admission), but also way easier to believe considering how OP exaggerates and makes drama over things that don't involve her. So yeah, it's no wonder that MIL was able to convince husband's family of OP being a JN herself.