Technical Questions

Only played about 30 hours so far and I'm noticing that a lot of the deaths/combat are completely preventable... except for the game mechanics forcing my characters to do stupid things. I know that the Bodyguard task can't be toggled off and having characters dump items into a relevant storage is an option you can toggle. But it's the things like characters refusing to stay in bed, even when nothing is assigned to them. Get them in bed, they're injured. Still in the negatives, stands right up. Put them back in bed, they stand back up immediately. Or one play where I started as a slave. The guard kept picking me up and putting me on the floor, forcing me into a softlock even if I reload. I understand that stuff like pathfinding are usually an issue in most games, modded or not. But how am I supposed to deal with issues that shouldn't be happening?