Please don’t die on this hill.

Racism is real. White women inserting themselves into conversations when not warranted is real. But defending an abuser when two women are concerned for their friend? That’s not okay. This is not the hill we should die on.

There are two other black men on the show who have normal relationship drama. There are other issues that are more important than MAFS that deserve all this discourse. But not all skin folk is kin folk. Chris does not deserve any type of defense. He’s an abuser first. Period.