Bedtime "Hack"
I have stumbled across an actually usable "hack" to make bedtime fights a little less frequent.
Get you a critter sleeping bag for your little one. At bedtime it is mealtime for the critter, and they eat everything.
I made my son a shark for Christmas. Now every night we just tell him it's time to feed the shark. He happily crawls into said shark and sometimes we give the shark other "snacks" to eat. The snacks being other, smaller stuffed friends. Tonight our shark is eating another shark, the 5yo, and a horse I think. It has cut down our fights over bedtime by a significant number.