Damon is the one who made Elena miserable in season 4

I hate how delena fans and the show try to say Stefan was the problem.

First Damon makes Elena feel bad for being a vampire right when she wakes up.

Then he tries to kill Matt and makes her feel guilty for choosing Stefan.

Then tells her she has to drink from humans and will be miserable.

She can’t drink any blood except human because of him.

Which leads to her almost killing Matt.

Then she has to go with him to learn how to feed. He makes her feel horrible when she’s crying. She tells Stefan she’s afraid of becoming like Damon.

Damon tells her to kill Connor which then leads to her seeing Katherine in her head who tells her her fears, that Stefan won’t love her anymore and she only has Damon left.

She loses Stefan because of Damon.

Damon promises to set Elena free of the sire bond and he doesn’t.

He tells her to shut off her humanity which leads her to hurt people.

He calls her a b word for being what he made by shutting off her humanity.

In the end he won’t even take the cure, because he doesn’t care enough to stay alive for her as a human. I don’t get why she chooses him after this.