i have to hurt the best person ive ever known

i (35m) have been dating the best woman (30f), and person, ive ever known. unbelievably kind, innocent, caring, absolute blast to spend time with. i love her entire being so much

weve been dating for about 16 months. I've heard from her and mutual friends im her first serious relationship in 12 years. shes smart, beautiful, and a joy to be around. she just had a lot of trauma and lack of trust.

she told me i opened that world for her Again. after 12 years she loved Again.

i love her so much, but we are incompatible sexually. ive tried communicating for 8 months. recommending hormome testing. the first 4 months shed wake me up for sexual intimacy .i tried everything i can think of, but at a certain point i must admit it won't work no matter how much i try

shes asleep in my bed right now. tomorrow i must find the courage to end the relationship.

i will always be there for her. she probably wont believe it but it will be true. i will always love her, we just aren't meant to be together