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WIBTA if I mention to my houseguests that they ruined my bed?

I already feel like the aHole even posting this but it’s bothering me and I’m okay hearing if I’m wrong here. Last week we had 2 houseguests, my husbands best friend and his girlfriend. We live in NYC and they live in London- Lovely people, very appreciative that they had a place to stay and for the most part the visit went fine.

They are both very heavy, and our guest room has a full bed. I’m sure it was tight but they didn’t complain. While they were here I offered to change their bedsheets and they said they were there only a week and I didn’t need to. When they left and I went to strip the bedding I noticed it was destroyed. The fitted sheet was ripped on the sides - like from pressure of being stretched because they were really tucked under the mattress. The mattress is like conclaved in two spots. Thank goodness for the box spring because I think the bed would have broken, the side panel got loose.

The bed is going to soon be taken apart as I’m 6 months Pregnant and it’s our only spare room so will be a nursery. I would have liked to try and sell the bed or put it in our basement for when our baby is old enough to use it but it’s just destroyed now. I dont want to body shame people and these particular people are very non confrontational to begin with so I don’t know if it’s okay to bring up. I know some might suggest my husband do it but I’m just as close with them if not closer at this point.

If it was a small thing I would let it go but a bed isn’t a small thing. I don’t know what I would even want them to do- pay/ replace/ just know what they did? There’s no way they didn’t know the sheets ripped at minimum.

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