Elayne: is it too late for me?

So I'm reading Knife of Dreams at the moment (only on chapter 3 currently so careful of spoilers!)

Anyways, I see so many people talk about liking Elayne and I just have a hard time seeing what people like about her.

She just comes across as annoying and demanding to me personally. IE, she says repeatedly in earlier books: I WILL bond Rand, like have you thought about how he feels? And what about the two contradictory letters she writes about him?

Also putting herself, Aviendha and Birgitte in direct harm so she could try and unravel the weave for her Gateway after they used the bowl of winds came across to me as pretty reckless for no good reason other than she wanted to.

Also the way she dragged Egwene into trying to manipulate Rand into being in a relationship with her in TSR was rather annoying to me, not to mention her dragging feet in getting Andor back.

So long story short, there's just things about her I find annoying and find myself basically skimming her chapters at this point. Is there still hope for me? Please say she does some cool stuff later that will make me like her because I feel like I'm SUPPOSED to like her, but j just can't bring myself to.