Reading fires of heaven and on ch 15 need some help regarding Egwene

Just finished reading the conversation between nynaeve and Egwene in elaida amyrillin chamber and felt egwene as a character is bloody toxic. How the heck are these women supposed to be friends when you casually bully your village friend while stripping her and scaring her with monsters holding her feels ridiculous.

Help me convince myself that she is not toxic or at least tolerable so I can read the series. Bloody hell she makes me hate reading her.