I don’t really know if I’m aloud to be upset

So I had volleyball practice today and went non-verbal for over half of practice and I was hyperventilating so a lot of my teammates were concerned ofc but this one girl kept saying “ FOR THE LOVE OF GOD STOP BEING SO DRAMATIC “ while I was almost breaking out in tears cause of how overstimulating everything was. I want to be upset at her and tell her what she said was sort of rude no matter her intention but I feel like I shouldn’t cause apparently she also have autism. So just asking but is it okay to possibly correct her an maybe ask if next time she could word things more polity then she did I just feel bad if I did cause apparently she struggles with social skills so idk should I ask her to be more polite or no?