Just frustrated at wife.

Me and my wife have gone back and forth on home schooling. Some time ago something happened and that just made up my mind that our kid needed to go to school. (Wife wasn't doing anything at home. It was ppd, so I reverse that decision then). I considered homeschooling strongly for a bit but back tracked.

We have talked about why we each think homeschooling or public school is better. At the end of the day my daughter will need help that she will only get through the school.. Speech therapy and socialization. I'm I grew up with a speech impediment. I grew up having to fight. It has cost me job opportunities and caused me many frustrations. The only environment that didn't seem to make my speech impediment a burden on me was in a prison/correctional setting. Inmates and staff were more understanding of my speech impediment versus outside word. I feel lucky to work in such an environment because of it. I remember having to repeat myself for a job interview because I couldn't pronounce the word due to a certain sound I have a hard time with. and see the lady right "do not recommend it due to communication ABILITY." I hit the rock bottom after that for a while.

And I want my daughter to have friends. I want her to be part of the world. My wife and her siblings were homeschooled. Her sister never got the proper mental care she needed. My wife has no friends because she she is so awkward outside of her niche employment. Her brother and sister will never leave their parents house. They do not have a future. Local Homeschooling groups are out. They are ran by anti vaccinators,, trumpers and highly religious. No non religious private schools by me.

My wife worries about ADHD diagnosis from the school. . My daughter temperament. Things that have improved won't improve untill she is out in a new environment. My wife has done a great job but coddles a little much on things and never does correction action. So it came down to if I registered her for school she could go. So I did that and my wife is giving me the extreme cold shoulder. I am trying to be positive and reassuring but if this goes on for more than a few days I will end up blowing up at her. I cannot do any right tonight. All conversations are short and pointed. This is the first time I ever really said no to her on bigger decisions. I am hoping when I get back from work tomorrow that all my stuff is still in the house and she chilled out. I do not want to deal with this attitude over the weekend.