Advice needed

I am four days sober after being heavy drinker most my adult life. I am committed to sobriety and I know it's a long road, but I am so relieved to have made this choice. My husband is supportive and means well, however, he keeps approaching me with stories of my drinking that he has never shared before. He also told me what a monster I was when drinking. I know he is right, and I have apologized. I just find the shame is not helpful to my self care at this stage. I need encouragement and support. Has anyone else gone through this?