I can’t to cold turkey anymore.. I’ll just weane with nicotine gum and stick with it

Today is the official. I cant deal with the stress of cold turkey anymore. If I have to go cold turkey I need to lock myself up for one week and there just isn’t the occasion anymore. I’ll weane using the gum for three months, it worked fine a few years ago. I dont believe allen carr that much or all the articles on cold turkey. I really get extremely irritable and I risk ruin all relationships and work if I go on that way. It would be even worse if I relapse…