i just lost my only regular

i am a black woman. i had an older regular named bob, who i had a strong inkling was some type of bigot, based on the faces he would make at some of the other women at my club. i work in a super black city, at a black ass club, and as to be expected… black women work at my club. darkskin black women, light skin black women, thick black women, skinny black women, plus sized black women. BLACK WOMEN! as we’re talking today i tell bob how i look forward to thanksgiving. why TF did he say, “it’s because you’re a black woman and food is the first think black women think about.” so i reply, “white women eat just as much, they just throw its up afterwards.” since we’re saying stupid ignorant shit, let’s be stupid. his second strike was getting defensive when i said due to the economy being messed up, the clubs have been very slow because people do not have a lot of fun money. he brings up how unemployment was cut in half and that’s a lot of people with jobs. i point out how that’s also a LOT of people unemployed. his last and final strike was saying he is going to a party this weekend that going to be 10% black, therefore no fights. so i tell him if he wants to be ignorant, keep those as inside thoughts. i am a BLACK WOMAN! why the actual fuck did you think saying some shit like that to me, would be okay??? or that thinking that is okay to say period???? so i pointed out how white men are constantly shooting up schools and unaliving their families but i am not going around bringing that up. why did he try to say that doesn’t happen… shit white women be unaliving their kids and husbands too!!! no amount of money will ever be worth having low racial self esteem! no amount of money would ever be worth allowing a white, green, yellow, or purple person disrespecting me and my race. he better be grateful all i did was calmly call him ignorant and walk away because it took everything in me not to headbunt him.