Child free places?

Prefacing this by saying that kids are awesome and I don't hate them. I am also a parent and aunt, so I know it's hard to keep them amused and there isn't a better feeling in the world than seeing the joy they experience.

However...

It seems that you can't go anywhere in the evening without someone bringing their kids along. Last weekend a bunch of us went to Holey Moley at night and it was so good to be able to hit a golf ball and play some arcade games without some kid and their bratty parents clogging up the space. Went to watch a movie at 8:45pm only to have to hear a parent negotiate with their child for half of the movie. They eventually left as they had reached an impasse.

It's annoying!

Where are the no children allowed spaces gone in Sydney? I don't imbibe, but from the sounds of it even pubs aren't child free anymore. Sometimes adults just want to experience a light show, a movie, a meal, a concert or anything without having to make space or time for kids, ya know what I mean?

EDIT: Cheers for all the reccy's for swingers clubs, strip clubs and sex dungeons. I love hanging out with my friends, but I would like to keep some parts a mystery! 🤣