I think my deck is a little salty

Felt compelled to ask about my relationship, since I've been feeling quite positive and hopeful lately. Thought that since my energy was pretty buoyant, I might get a good read. So I asked about our future, and got a couple negative cards, including the subtexts of waste, greed, lack of motivation, and then heartbreak. Initially I thought "yikes", maybe I'll try again another time. But it sat with me all day, as I reasoned that all relationships inevitably end in heartbreak, after all. So I asked the cards again and got the heirophant and Queen of Cups.

My last questions? "Why can't I make sense of this? What does this mean?" To which I pulled the Ace of Wands, with the learner explanation centered on creating your own destiny. So *that's* why the first answer was essentially that I was wasting my time asking questions instead of doing something, the second was flippant, and the third contradictory. "It is what you make it, stop asking and go do something about it."