What kind of romantic partner am I?

I saw someone else’s post earlier and liked the prompt, so I did a reading for myself. I recently went through a divorce and have no interest in getting in a new relationship, but I’ve been doing a lot of reflection and soul searching and thought this would be a good way to uncover some flaws I hadn’t thought of that maybe led to the end of my relationship.

I’m using the neon deck from CraftCardStore on Etsy.

1. The Hermit- I tend to withdraw into myself, especially during arguments, I need time to reflect and gather my thoughts.

2. Nine of wands- I’m willing to put in the work for the relationship, I don’t quit easily.

3. The Chariot- I like to be in control and have things my way

4. Judgement- I can be critical of my partner and not see their point of view

5. Eight of Cups- I’m willing to walk away if I’m not happy