A Tolerant Religion

I am playing in Crusader Kings 3 with the mod Elder Kings 2 and I want to form new faith with worship of the Divines and some of the Daedras, but I not sure which Princes are good for a civilized society.

For example, Namira. She is a patron of cannibals. But she is a patron of beggars and the poor too. Can her cultiests run charity and not succumb to eating people flesh and other ... bad things?

Or Mehrunas Dagon. Maybe his followers would be punks and not end-of-days cult?

Plus, what about vampires, werewolfs and necromancers? Most of them are bad people, but they are still people.

I am asking those questions, because my character is compassionate redhead breton clubfooted witch-mage and Azura follower, which married to a secret vampire. Quite pariah.

I hope these questions will amuse you)