Texts with someone I thought was better friends with

Texts with the best man in my wedding. Before this we’d exchanged a few voice texts where I called him out for being flaky and not putting any effort into the friendship.

He and his wife moved to California 5 years ago for bible school and just moved back spring 2023. We’d stayed in contact texting, 8ball pool over iMessage, etc. I never felt like anything was off until he moved back and rarely initiated any hang outs. His wife and my wife were great friends too, but his wife has been ghosting mine with no explanation for a few years. Maybe I’m bias but it comes across like “we didn’t want to hang out with you because if something better came up you’d get upset” *Who wouldn’t??*

He mentions us being upset about them canceling plans (how outrageous, right?) but that’s impossible as they never committed to any plans anyway. What’s your opinion on this? Am I overreacting? I haven’t talked with him sense and he hasn’t reached out either