I hate Toby

I literally just started this show. On season 1 episode 5 so no major spoilers, please. Does Toby ever become not an asshole though? I don't like him at all. He's red flag central. Bulldozing her wishes, calling her crazy for researching his ex-wife (totally normal, as someone who is in a relationship with a divorced man), and of course when they first started hanging out CONSTANTLY making comments about how he wants to have sex with her. Really just seems like he found someone who thought he was funny and would put out and did everything to try and get her to do it, and he doesn't respect her desires or wishes or who she is as a person at all.