I Divorce Raped LuBu

I'm playing a legendary Romance campaign as the bandit queen, and pretty early on I got a good advantage over Dong Min. I sent a peace agreement which he was overly positive for, so I also threw in an arranged marriage between LuBu and the bandit queen. Things were looking great and I was excited to have LuBu in my faction.

However when I went to the officers tab he was at 0 satisfaction, and if there was a way to be negatively satisfied he'd be -50. I realized that he was about to divorce my Bandit Queen so I took his weapon, his horse, his trinket, and his auxiliary. Sure enough he left my faction the very next turn. It's kind of funny to be riding around on his horse with his weapon.