41[NB4TM] Ireland: Looking for a Husband🤞

The title is tongue-in-cheek; I am in fact seeking a flirty get-to-know-each-other chat over coffee, not *literally* instant elopement. That said, I want to be honest: for me, dating does have an end-goal - finding a monogamous life partner.

I went through my teens, 20s & most of my 30s without much interest in romance. But, over the past few years, I've been lucky enough to get to know several sweet, fun, fascinating, smokin' hot guys/enbies who I enjoyed spending time with so much that I wanted to make it a full-time thing. It never worked out (with one guy the problem was distance; with another, we're still close friends but he was never into me romantically) but those experiences did convince me that landing a husband is something I want very deeply.

**Me:**

* Physically transitioning but masc-presenting MtF enby * 41 * I live in Dublin 3 * I look like [this](https://imgur.com/apkVxBC) & [this](https://imgur.com/uRcvxPZ) & [this](https://imgur.com/E67K7kQ) (I'll delete the pics after a few days)

**You:**

* Trans guy or transmasc enby * Aged 31 to 51 (preferably 36-46) * Living in Ireland (preferably Dublin/Leinster) * My 'type' isn't very consistent, but I mostly go for fellas that have warm/cuddly/open personalities & look like [this](https://jessicamoorhouse.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/09/gabe-dunn-1.jpg) or [this](https://cdn.craft.cloud/3747bbfe-07db-499d-aa3d-b239ba21c062/assets/portraits/cover-features/mae-martin/1J1A7180-Enhanced-NR-1-Edit.jpg) or [this](https://www.instagram.com/p/DIwj8o5ufSo) or [this](https://www.instagram.com/p/DPWwL6LiQc-)

If I've piqued your interest but you want to know more before getting touch, [my full chapter-&-verse info is here](https://www.reddit.com/r/t4t_relationships/comments/1l9hof6/40_nb4tm_dublin_seeking_companionship_or_flirty/)