Fun Activities For Adult "Kids"

I'm posting here since my son follows the Raleigh sub. We're in the Fuquay area. Daughter in Cary. We're looking for fun outings that don't involve playing sports. We're a family of mom/dad (60s, still young at heart but not body! I have mobilityissues) four big kids (30-38) and 3 grandkids (9-14).

We want to give experiences rather than things for Christmas. We did Busch Gardens last year for the whole family, but it's not in the budget this year. We're taking the grands on a separate adventure. Son/DIL are into gaming. Daughter/SIL are more artsy and into things like Galaxycon (no Anime). We've brainstormed and came up with an escape room, wine & design, Dave & Busters, but I'm open to more. We thought we'd do 2 things throughout the year, so each couple gets to choose.

Is there anything I haven't thought about?

TIA