How do I unify look and sound across two setups remotely for YouTube?

My friend and I are starting a youtube channel together, but we are on opposite sides of the country. We have different cameras, lights, monitors, and mics. Our rooms and curtains are also massively different colors. We don’t even remotely look or sound like we are on the same channel. How can I get us to match up?

We are looking to hire a producer/editor but haven’t found one who can check our dailies and guide us back to a consistent look and sound if we drift.

My question here is mostly process… what’s the best way to go about this to get a professional result on a budget?

Any help appreciated!

# Setup 1:

(Inherited from her daughter “free”

Sound:

Mini Lavalier Microphone for iPhone & Android Wireless

2 camera setup

Zoom Camera: Logitech SmartCam

Performance Camera: Canon EOS M50 Mark II

Lights:

GVM 18" RGB Double Ring Light

2x Nanlite Compac 20 Dimmable 5600K Slim Soft Light Studio LED Panel

Whiteboard mode:

Wacom tablet and wacom monitor

# Setup 2:

*(Held off on buying equipment until a professional could bless it to match my friend’s lighting and camera)*

Sound:

Attachment: Rode Smart Lavalier

System: Rode Wireless Go II Dual Channel

2 camera setup

Zoom: Logitech Brio 101 Full HD 1080p

Performance: Needed - Currently Iphone XS

Lights:

1: Neewer LED Bi-Color Studio Round

2: Needed

Whiteboard mode: Needed… Ipad or wacom tablet probably

Problem: monitors splash green light.

Thank you!