This comment sings to me

So I just got out of work and was doing my daily ritual of doom-scrolling before eating and taking a nap. I stumbled upon this comment from a guy on Facebook who has never been in a relationship before. I liked the quote so much that I saved it for future uses. I want to share it here because the words are very relatable and explains what a lot of us are currently going through.

"For some individuals you’ll get to a point in life where you realize no amount of self-work, or leveling up, will change the fact that people just simply don’t fk with your energy or not attracted to you with no real explanation. You’re not bad it’s just there are certain qualities that we all seem to need met in someone that makes us say “yes”or “no”. But some simply just don’t have enough likeable qualities that once you get several rejections from different individuals and can’t seem to fix them or advice doesn’t work you end up simply just moving through life declining opportunities."

I'm not sharing this comment to tell people that we're all doomed to be virgins, but it gives a lot of us validation in which we have tried, pursued, and struggled with making friends, getting into relationships, and literally nothing seems to work. Hopefully a non-virgin will see this comment and think twice before they try to give out unsolicited relationship advice that has absolutely 0 effect on us. We are an anomaly and shouldn't feel like we're doing something wrong for simply just existing.