Trying to understand the bane and compulsion of V5 Toreador.

Greetings,

New story teller trying to pivot his party from dungeons and dragons to world of darkness.

For the clan Bane, what counts as beautiful surroundings? Is it subjective or is there an objective means for classifying beautiful? I imagine obvious extremes like sewers and garbage dumps classify, but what about less obvious environments like back alleys or dirty basements?

For the clan compulsion, what counts as the object that is the center of their fixation?

I recall reading a story where a player decided that their Toreador was obsessed with their own reflection, and stared into every mirror they could see. So if that was the case, can they pick something tangible and finite and basically carry it with them wherever they go?

I have a player interested in playing a Toreador with an obsession with stuffed animals. Could this person carry their special item with them and basically be prepared to deal with the consequences of triggering obsession?

Or does the obsession with more in the hands of the storyteller? Can the storyteller decide what thing in a scene Is the "most beautiful" for the toreador?

Sorry for the basic question