It’s getting real!

I am in the final countdown now. The last RSVP check I did was about a month ago. I’ve had a couple people change their RSVP in the last week. One had a death in the family and another wanted to add a plus one. I gave my final numbers to my caterer 3 weeks ago. Should I check in with everyone again now that it’s closer?

My caterer will be okay with minor adjustments in my numbers but not charge me less if my number goes down. (I’ve already paid and wouldn’t get any sort of refund.)

I kind of feel exhausted with all these details and I’m not really feeling like I should have to babysit people or nag about their attendance.