Videographer questions

Hi Weddit-

I'm hoping a videographer or someone close to the industry will happen across this post and help me out with some general questions I have.

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I feel like when I see videographer packages, its 8 hours or 10 hours of footage boiled down to a 3-5 min gorgeous cinematic highlight reels. When I think of what I want on video to go back and re-live, its the ceremony, the speeches and the duets (we are doing karaoke duets instead of the traditional first dance, father daughter/mother son dances). The short video would be an amazing bonus but I really want those moments and I'm not seeing many packages that have that except as an add-on. Are there services that do just that? Should I be searching for something different than a "wedding videographer"?

TIA!