21k Widowers

I just finished responding to a OP here when I looked over at the membership. It currently reads 21.2k. I think it was in the low teens when I joined a couple years ago. I burst into tears at what that represents. It represents grief and great loss, but it also represents healing and helping. My heart goes out to all of you.

No one wants to be here. Only we truly understand. So we post when we need, help when we can in this crappy compassionate sub world we inhabit.