Not a widower yet...

But my wife has been battling cancer for a little over a year (chemo, radiation, brachy, clinical trial drug). She was thought to be in remission but today we learned that the cancer has spread to her abdominal wall. We also learned that there are no curative treatment options ahead of us. Just chemo to hopefully prolong her lifespan. Have a follow-up tomorrow to learn more.

We're 31... We've been together since high school... She's my best friend.

She's asleep and I'm scrolling for perspective. Figured I'd post here, hoping for some advice, perspective, and clarity. Thabks