Buffy hit me hard today...

My stepdaughter is "making" me watch Buffy with her (yeah, revoke my geek card, I never watched it before) and a voiceover really hit us hard today

"So, what, are we helpless? Puppets? No. The big moments are gonna come, can't help that. It's what you do afterwards that counts. That's when you find out who you are."

Doing my best to make sure that I remain the person that my wife married. It's really difficult some days to stand up and be there for everyone else, but I'm forcing myself to, because they need me. Stay strong.