To not hijack the "side of the bed" post...

but when does it stop. My wife never got back in our bed after her 30 day, two surgeries stay in the hospital. She slept in the recliner for 18 month then a hospital bed for the last 18 months.

Since she passed 11 weeks ago the bed has looked like a war zone every morning. Granted I had a few restless nights and the bed was in dissarray but not every morning like it is now.