How to respond to a manager that offers the same poor solution over and over again
Recently I got caught up in another locations manager's poorly planned project. He didn't research whether our location had the resources he needed to do this project, and we didn't. It caused enough problems to where my coworkers and I couldn't do our jobs because we had to deal with the fallout of his mistake.
I contacted him and tried to work out a solution so we could both do our jobs. The manager refused to see me as a person, and just told me I didn't do my job correctly and repeated the same answer 10 times. (Wrong answer, too). It was demeaning and frustrating. I went home angry and I don't know what I could have done differently. I didn't want to argue with him, but he clearly wasn't listening to me. I feel like this happens a lot with this manager where he literally counteracts what my own manager is telling me to do, as if his projects are more important.
Is there a corporate phrase you use when someone is demeaning you and trying to force you to make a bad decision or take the blame for his mistake? I need some good pocket phrases that mean "Not fucking likely, you twat" in corporate speak. Or maybe "I'll do what you ask this time but I'm reporting you for your disrespectful behavior, so shut up now because I'm hanging up."
Ps. I'm leaving soon for another job, but I've worked here for many years successfully, and this idiot was literally fired and rehired.