A recommendation for you -
Hey, if you guys and gals haven't seen this, I think it's really interesting and meaningful for those of us who love BL.
[Gay Fuuzoku no Mochigi-san - Sexuality is Life by Michigi](http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/gay_fuuzoku_no_mochigi_san_sexuality_is_life/)
It's a manga version of a collection of essays written by Mochigi, who first worked in the industry as a gay prostitute in Shinjuku Ni-chome, Tokyo, and has since worked in gay bars and gay videos. So this is about real life and real experiences - not fancy art.
Anyway, check it out!