Attn Female Budget Nerds

I've been spending time getting caught up on Ben and Ernie's Budget Nerds videos on YouTube and am watching the episode with Kath Younger sharing her categories. In one part she talks about how she WAM's from her personal spending categories and I can relate to that. I know it's main purpose is to give me money to spend on myself, but I've always prioritized my family's needs over my own, so think nothing at giving up my own $ to cover overspending by the household. Who else is like this?